People, bare with me for awhile, while I throw my tantrums here

Definition of marriage : the social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments,religious ceremonies, etc.

-credits: dictionary.com

Wait, for better understanding..

Allah swt telah berfirman dalam Surah al-Rum 30:21:

Dan di antara tanda-tanda yang membuktikan kekuasaanNya dan rahmatNya, bahawa Dia menciptakan untuk kamu pasangan-pasangan dari jenis kamu sendiri, supaya kamu bersenang hati dan hidup mesra dengannya, dandijadikanNya antara kamu (suami isteri) perasaan kasih sayang dan belas kasihan.

dalam konteks kehidupan masa kini di mana kedua-dua pasangan bekerja di luar rumah untuk menyara keluarga, masyarakat harus menilai kembali hak dan tanggungjawab suami isteri. Yakni satu penilaian yang mengimbangkan hak dan tanggungjawab masing-masing kerana ajaran Islam menganjurkan keharmonian, kesaksamaan dan keadilan dalam hubungan keluarga.

-credits: http://shuhmy.multiply.com/journal/item/244/Perkahwinan_menurut_Islam.

Traditionally, the man goes out to find money, work etc, while the woman stays at home to breed.Its still going on right now, but there are a few changes. today the women have caught up with the men, and many successful women broke the traditional barrier.

Even the men, at certain circumstances choose to be house-husband if needed to. Why not? I respect these group of husbands. why? because apparently the men earn lower than the women. So women go out to work. The financials in the family entirely belongs to the women. this men n women, they give and take. men put aside their ultra-ego, and women put aside their greed, just for the success of their marriage.

In my honest opinion, along with the sayings by God in the Quran, its doesnt state that men need to earn more than women, or whatesoever. It all depends on love.

(and hello excuse me, dun tell me ”Yelah,ni tgh syg, bau kentut pun wangi”. Ive known him for 6 yrs, and i noe every inch of him. so does he.)

Marriage doesnt involve anythg else, but Love. wiillingness to sacrifice. u can live with eacch other n cannot live without them also. Love doesnt involve age. The current trend is that the men is younger than the lady.

I noe of this one couple, both good-looking the type where u can only see in fairytale.

Now have their one yr old son, but the sad thing is that it’s a failed marriage.

Doesn’t mean that yr marriage looks like a fairytale, it will end like one. Wake up honey, this is reality.

enuff said, till here. I hope YOU (in particular) will get me